To live to lie to cry.. the first true chapter- to live

Were living in a world filled with loved, hatred, Joy, sadness, awe and wonder... The question thats been asked by many philosophers is " why do we live , whats the purpose of life?" ... To me i think there is no answer to satisfy the question and there isn't any true satisfaction that will bring an answer to the question. As the human race, each individual will strive for perfection, from the way we present ourselves in public to the way we look and think of ourselves in our own reflection through a mirror. We strive to be popular, we want to have a place in society, we want to be loved by everyone that surrounds us, but little do we realize that each step we think we are closer to perfection a bigger hole of imperfection is left behind. I myself am not here to judge anyone by any chance but i've seen it for myself people who want to make friends try to make themselves fit in may that be losing weight, trying to buy the unafforable clothes or to just brag on about themselves.... but truly the worries and the effort that they go through brings them the vast amount of misery only to realise that the joy of the achievement was not worth all the sorrow at all... Everything in life seems to be balance.. in life were given both good and bad things.. but if we try to obtain too much of one thing it seems we throw of this balance.. and most of the time the balance is uncontrollable.. but we've be taught in movies that we should give everything a risk give it a chance... perhaps the teachings are right if you take a chance at something your unsure you might end up having more good then bad or visa versa... Life its all an experience people say and i say thats completely true... Like i said life can be a balance of good and bad but the experience that we have in life may give us an upper hand at the risk we take that is to ensure we have more of an idea of the result as of a decision.... So i say take life as it comes, dont try to define the purpose of life, learn from experiences and try to upperhand and the good and bads of life....

dysfunctional life much

Living in a world where each individual has their own views of life their own ways of living and their own way of pursuing life as it comes...We live in a world where what we do cant please everyone and not everyone pleases us... As humans we have the trait of being quite selfish though we hardly admit it but deep in us its true.. we want things to go our way and for everything good for us sometimes regardless of anothers feeling... we demand respect , we demand to be loved we demand everything to be as we want but what happens when we dont get things our way we find someone something to blame..If things go our way and everyone and everything is what we want then we dont learn to appreciate the things that happen and things that dont happen.. we dont learn to repsect the people who deserve it and we dont learn who is worthy of respect and who isnt.. Life through many of its challanges, propose to us a new experience and a new lesson in life, but ultimately we are the key holders to this decision of accepting lifes proposal.. Life offers us love, loss, heartbreaks and happiness.. but if we deny all these things life offers then how would we learn, how would we be able to differentiate the things we want in life and the things we dont want.. So life can be a bitch but liek the old saying goes build a bridge and get over it but sometimes that bridge has to be made from respect, experience, appreciation and sometimes we may get a helping hand to build it so we gotta learn to appreciate it.. But ultimately the bridge needs the key stone of time.. time is the answer to everything but everything is also questioned by time... Love, Respect and Trust